when others tell you you're bad

So I have come to find that I am ok when other people tell me i'm a bad person. They can call me names and say whatever they want. It actually makes me realize that I am NOT such a bad person. I am not saying that I am an angel by any means, its just nice to know that I am not the kind of person that is saying the bad things to other.

I would never say the things to some people that others say to me. Not because I don't think them, not because i'm a pushover, but because no matter how much I dislike someone I don't feel its right to say horrible things to them, or call them names. Yes it slips now and then, when I have been completely pushed to the limit, like I said no angel!

I can't imagine telling someone "I hope you kill yourself", because you don't know the trials someone has been through and the fact that some might actually go there.

I would never tell someone I "love" or even loved that I hope their plane crashes... you would feel awful if it actually did! You can't take these harsh words back, and the may forgive, but they will never forget.

If actually threatening someone or someones personal property, or going as far as to vandalizing something of someone else's makes you feel like a good person you should probably take a good hard look at your inner self.

But something more realistic... just telling someone that they are trash or calling them some other names doesn't get you anywhere. It doesn't solve anything. And even more so it makes YOU look like the fool. Trying to bring others down so you can feel better about yourself is no way to live. Shows that you need more confidence in who you are!

Telling people how much you hate them, what a horrible person they are, that you hope they die all while they just sit back and take it, don't say anything... do you think this stuff makes you look like a good person? I don't think so! So next time you have the urge to "fill someone in" think about how it makes you look first. Be the bigger person and just walk the other way. Remember the old saying... "if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all"... Surround yourself with people you like, who like you, who care about you, who want to see you happy and polietly or quietly avoid everyone else.